Episode 3

You Do You (Near Me): Parallel Play & Why We Love Ignoring Each Other

Published on: 24th March, 2025

Ever sat next to someone for hours, doing your own thing, and felt weirdly connected? That’s parallel play, baby—and it's not just for toddlers and tired couples. In this episode of S Squared: Social Savage with Tanya and Chalee get into the good stuff:

How shared silence can deepen intimacy
Why your anxious attachment might not love it
What it looks like when it works (and when it flops)
Plus: how to make space without creating distance

From romantic partners to roommates, this is for anyone who loves someone—but still needs their own screen time.

Song of the Day:

Make Me a Believer - Luther Vandross

https://open.spotify.com/track/1GwsrKwWdhU7iUpaB4eaIn?si=f166618e5a1f40ef

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About the Podcast

S Squared: Social Savage

Welcome to S Squared: Social Savage with Tanya and Chalee, the podcast where real talk meets raw insight. We dive deep into the world of relationships—romantic, platonic, professional, and everything in between—exploring how they shape and influence our everyday lives.

No topic is off-limits. From lighthearted banter to thought-provoking discussions, we unpack the importance of communication, the power of transparency, and the unspoken filters that shape what we say and do in different spaces. Words hold weight, and the way we exchange them can make or break connections. That’s why we examine not just what’s said, but how it’s received, interpreted, and relayed.

Whether you’re here for laughs, life lessons, or a little bit of both, S Squared: Social Savage is your go-to space for real conversations that challenge perspectives and spark deeper connections.

Tune in and let’s talk about it!

About your hosts

Tanya Wade

Hello, hello! I’m the founder of Articulate Wellness Collective—where voice, wellness, and clarity come together to inspire, uplift, and heal. I wear a few hats: I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, therapist, and voice actor. At the heart of it all, I help people feel seen, heard, and understood—whether that’s in a therapy session or through the power of storytelling.

I work with individuals who are working through life’s real stuff, brands looking for a voice that connects, and creatives who want to bring their stories to life. From guided meditations and character work to coaching sessions and corporate trainings, I use voice and emotional insight to help people and messages land—authentically and with impact.

This podcast is part of that mission. It’s a space to get real, get grounded, and maybe even laugh a little while we unpack the beautiful mess of being human.

So, if you're into honest conversations, healing vibes, and the magic of storytelling—you’re in good company.

Let’s create something meaningful, together.

ChaLee Houston

Andrea Houston is the founder of Hello Late Bloomer Publishing and Anchor Exchange, two platforms driven by purpose and transformation. Hello Late Bloomer Publishing is dedicated to bringing stories to life across genres, from heartfelt children's book series to relaxing coloring books for adults and older youth. Andrea believes in the power of storytelling to inspire, comfort, and connect.

Beyond publishing, she leads Anchor Exchange, a consulting firm that equips professionals with the confidence and strategy to transition into new industries. Passionate about reinvention at any stage of life, Andrea helps individuals recognize their worth, leverage their expertise, and step boldly into new opportunities.

Through both Hello Late Bloomer Publishing and Anchor Exchange, Andrea remains committed to amplifying voices, sparking imagination, and empowering others to embrace their next chapter with confidence and purpose.